Don't Stop Believin'

The Midnight Train Going Anywhere 🚂

The Kind of Hope That Doesn’t Need a Destination | Don’t Stop Believin’ by Journey

There is something I want to say about this song that has nothing to do with stadium sing-alongs, though I have done plenty of those.

“Don’t Stop Believin’” came out in 1981. I was six. I have been hearing it my entire life, in every context imaginable, and it never quite gets old. That alone is worth noting. A song that survives forty-plus years and that many uses without losing its ability to actually reach people is doing something right.

What it is doing right, I think, is telling a true story about movement.

The Distinction That Changes Everything

The small town girl and the city boy are not heading somewhere. They are heading anywhere. That distinction matters. “Going anywhere” is not a destination. It is a direction away from where you currently are. It is the choice of forward motion over staying stuck, made without the comfort of knowing what you are moving toward.

I have made that choice more times than I can count. Not always consciously. Sometimes it looked like getting out of bed when I did not particularly want to. Sometimes it looked like showing up for Donna or for the kids when my internal weather was making everything difficult. 

Sometimes it literally looked like getting in the car and driving, not because I had somewhere to go, but because moving felt better than not moving.

The midnight train going anywhere is a perfect image for that. You are not paralyzed. You are not stuck in the station. You are on the train. Where the train ends up is a problem for later.

Shadows Searching in the Night

The verse about strangers and shadows is the part of this song I find most honest. “Strangers waiting, up and down the boulevard, their shadows searching in the night. Streetlight people, living just to find emotion.” That is not a party lyric. That is a lyric about people who are numb, or lonely, or searching for a feeling that confirms they are real and alive. “Living just to find emotion” is a devastating line when you sit with it. It describes a state of disconnection that anyone who has lived with depression will recognize immediately.

The collective nature of it is what the song is offering as its answer. Not a solution, not a plan, not a destination. Just the knowledge that every person standing on that boulevard, every person on that midnight train, is carrying the same search. The shadows are shared. The searching is shared. The not-knowing-where-you-are-going is shared.

That gets lost when this song becomes a stadium sing-along, though I am not dismissing the stadium sing-along. There is something real that happens when a room full of people who do not know each other all know every word of the same song. That experience is not nothing. It is its own kind of evidence that you are not as alone as the harder days insist.

The Smaller, More Stubborn Thing

“Don’t stop believin’. Hold on to that feeling.” The feeling the song is asking you to hold onto is not certainty. It is not a plan. It is not confidence. It is the smaller, more stubborn thing that got the small town girl and the city boy onto the train in the first place. The thing that said: keep moving. Not because you know where you are going. Because stopping feels worse.

That is the version of hope I recognize from my own life. Not the kind that knows the outcome. The kind that takes the midnight train anyway.

Take gentle care of yourselves and of each other.

Keep going,

Blake

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